Heartbreaks & Breakups
I will never forget when I broke up with my ex—we call him “the comedian.” Well, I guess I should say I will never forget when he broke up with me. I was absolutely convinced that we were meant to be together. I thought I had manifested him. We were soulmates. We were twin flames. We would surely find our way back to each other.
I spent 2 months in absolute agony. In severe denial. I was convinced we were going to get back together. I sat relentlessly by the phone, waiting to hear from him. I would pull tarot cards, trying to get affirmation that we were meant to be together. I paid hundreds (!!!) of dollars at psychics, hoping to get some confirmation that we would reunite. I went to therapy, to coaches, to energetic healers. I read books, I did classes and workshops, I even went as far as to buy a spell book & try to do magic to bring him back.
I forgot to mention- I had newly moved to NYC and had zero friends, I was in between jobs…I basically had nothing going on except to spiral about him.
It took a full 2 months for me to even accept that we wouldn’t get back together. It took countless months after that for me to truly heal. For his name, or the thought of him, to not give me that punch-in-the-gut feeling. 3.5 years later, I’m grateful I went through that. That experience changed my life— it taught me about codependency, attachment theory, childhood trauma, shadow work, and so many other things that helped me get to know myself and heal.
Nevertheless, I wasted a lot of time and money. I wish at the time I had access to something or someone that could explain to me why I was feeling so bad. Why other people could go through breakups and be ok, and for me it felt like the world was ending. Why nothing I did seemed to make me feel better. Why it was taking so long. I had no answers, no tools, no resources.
I made this course for every person who resonates with the pain I was going through. For everyone who wants to heal from a breakup in the best way possible. Who wants to grow, to up-level their life, to come out of a rock bottom better than ever. This course can get you there—it is the confidant, the tools, the resources, the answers that I wish I had back then.
